Funny
old week, early part spent grappling with the mysteries of the Dutch
tongue, for the last written test of this Level. I am still dumb in
Dutch but the written is progressing sloooowly. This was relieved by
a trip to the Lumiere to see Suffragettes which I much
enjoyed. It reminded me forcefully of the poverty and deprivation of
working class life a hundred years ago, endured as inevitable by my
parents and grandparents. And it caused me yet again, to mourn the
lack of interest in political voting by many, many young women today.
Young men too no doubt, but the women's vote was won at such great
cost by the bravery, foresight and endurance of the relatively few.
Upper class suffragettes were chiefly regarded as a dotty
embarrassment; working class girls were regarded as insane and
morally unrespectable. Both layers experienced considerable societal
disdain and exclusion and were treated as traitors by the police and
Government. An enjoyable coda to the film was the long list of
countries with the dates when each allowed the vote for women. The
two most memorable were Switzerland, 1971 and Saudi Arabia 2015.
But,
chiefly my mind has been on more superficial things, like
illuminations! I love the 'trees' at the skating rink in the Markt
and the way the real trees in Simon Stevinplein are graced with
light. The Christmas market is a selling opportunity primarily but
the expense and imagination involved in decking the already
beautiful streets of Brugge with light, is breathtaking and
imaginative. Apart from the occasional Gluhwein, I have bought
nothing from the many little chalet/stalls but to walk through and
among the crowds, experience the fun of so many and see the
lights and sights, gives a very real sense of involvement and shared pleasure.
It almost seeps in through the skin, and I return home, smiling.
On Friday morning, returning from a scalping by a master cutter on Gentpoortstraat to whom I had patiently and unsuccessfully explained again, exactly what 'trim' meant, I saw quite a sight. Next to the Vismarkt sat a man clad entirely in white, at a little round cloth-covered table on which sat an old-fashioned red telephone into which he was talking. There was no card of explanation nor begging bowl so he wasn't a first cousin of the living statues so beloved of tourists everywhere. Shortly after the picture below was taken, a fluttering, twittering flock of Japanese tourists descended delightedly on him, kissing him, stroking his cheek, taking off his hat and ruffling his hair while taking innumerable selfies and other photos. He seemed very happy indeed with the warm attention; his smile grew broader and his conversation into the red phone, more animated. It mattered not that the phone was unconnected. Passers-by were smiling and a grey morning was lifted.
But I have been looking back also over earlier days after a significant death in the family a few days ago. It is good to live, as children do, in the here-and-now but memories, when stirred, also offer joys and reassurance as well as regret and pleasure. I have spoken to people, some of whom I hadn't spoken to for several years; distant relatives and near, reminiscing and laughing, sighing and reflecting, swapping memories redolent of the past with added resolutions to stay in future touch. But soon enough, the ripples on the water will widen and vanish, and the memories will be put back in store for occasional private reflection again.
So no blog for a few weeks; back, earlier than intended, to the UK on December 15th for the funeral and nearly three weeks in Britain, without my computer. I won't be going Ipad-less into that good night but don't think I can blog on that!